Interpret your dreams; obtain your dreams! The psychology of
interpretation for happiness and inner change. This new system
Can transform your life. Use 'Soul Statements' to map the course
of your inner-life! A new method of interpretation, to discover
the rocks in your mind, and then flow on a current to where your
sweetest dreams may lie.
As you go through this life
you're flowing in a certain way. In your mind is a
constant inner-dialogue and continuation of mental pictures, and
these flow from the inner-philosophy you have about life, and they
flow to the way you experience the world outside. Happy, fulfilled
people don't have the same inner-life as those who have, or feel
they have, failed. Often our minds are a balance for the world
outside; we all spend at least some time daydreaming. Nobody will
say that they want to be poor or unhappy, yet poor or unhappy
people do spend their moment to moment inner-life unknowingly
creating these conditions. Maybe you're neither poor nor totally
unhappy, but any of us could do better! It's not easy to be
conscious of our moment to moment dialogue, pictures and
inner-philosophy, one problem is observation, and the other is
self-censorship. Dreams at night are a continuation of the person
we are in the daytime. We can use them to find out how we've made
ourselves the people we are and the circumstances we live in, and
this knowledge is the first step to happy change.
Dream interpretation doesn't
seem either easy nor practical on the face of it, but I've
developed my own system, actually based on methods of creativity.
Forget the 'dream dictionaries' or complicated tomes of
psychology. My method of interpretation is intended to reveal our
inner-philosophy, dialogue and pictures - and to enable change
through the other methods discussed elsewhere in this site. At
the end of this, through a process of why, why, why questioning
you will end up with a growing series of 'Soul Statements',
and eventually a picture of yourself will emerge, your
inner-self, and this will show you why you are who you are, where
you are, and you may effect any subsequent change as you might
desire.
The easiest way to do this is
for me to show you just a few of my own dreams and how I arrived
at my 'soul statements' so you shall be able to do similar.
Dream One - Title: Jelly Pills.
I went into a clothes shop
but couldn't find anything I liked. I sat down to take some
medicine but found that my mischievous nephew had covered
them in jelly. I was so mad I trembled in anger and felt I
could kill him.
At the time I had this dream, I
was at the start of a chronic illness. Going into the clothes
shop and not finding what I liked shows that I can't find an
'outer-persona' that I'm comfortable with; I don't fit in. The
pills became useless because of the jelly; jelly could represent
the lack of strength, inner-fiber or gumption, to make a decision
about who I am. The pills are useless and I erupt into anger,
meaning the constant inner-irritation I was feeling prior to
becoming sick had caused the illness and there was no point
carrying on taking any medication while I still felt angry.
Now with most dream
interpretation techniques everything would stop there, but I have
to come up with a 'Soul Statement' as I wish to refine/heal
myself. So this is done by summing up the dream and to keep
asking why, why, why, until I end up with an indivisible
statement. An atom sentence perhaps.
- I made myself ill by being constantly angry about
everything. WHY?
- I can't find a way to feel I fit in with everyone around
me. WHY?
- I don't have the same goals as every body else. WHY?
- Life is too weird; I have to pursue these answers and
can't stand the mundane. WHY?
- I can't answer that.
Soul Statement: My perceived difference to other people
causes inner-anger which in turn affects my health.
Because it's just the way I am.
So now I know. I was feeling constantly angry because I don't fit
in, I can't think of anyone who's like me, this led me to be ill.
So either I can change or accept myself. When I thought about it,
I couldn't change. I'll never be happy with the mundane (I lead a
bohemian lifestyle), if feeling an outsider is a part of that,
then I'll accept it. O.K, so that's not perfect but when I
understood what the dream was really saying, I felt better about
things (though I didn't get well). Let's do another example:
Dream Two - Title: Black Eye.
I went to the bank and the
teller started flirting with me. She asked if she could have
a picture of myself. I gave her one and noticed that in it I
had a black eye. We went to a restaurant together and I felt
really annoyed about something but I didn't know what. By the
time the food came I was so irritated that I pretended that I
didn't want the food. To be polite she pretended she didn't
either and it made me feel even worse.
Then it was another day. I
was in the bank and saw her in the background. I could see
that she was avoiding me.
O.K. So let's interpret it.
- I pretend I don't like people and situations and act
aloofly [Refusing the food]. WHY?
- So people won't like me and become my friends [Her
avoiding me the next day]. WHY?
- As I recall that whenever I was close to people in the
past they had to go away so now I avoid closeness [Black
eye]. WHY?
- I can't stand the loss. WHY?
- I can't answer that.
Soul Statement = I act cold to avoid closeness with
other people as I can't stand loss.
I keep a separate book with
nothing but dreams in it, and the soul statements at the end of
each dream. The thing is that after a few months I realised that
it came down to a small number of Soul Statements endlessly
repeating themselves, thus I could see where I was in life; a map
of my stream had been charted.
Here's another dream that ends
up at the same statement after the 'why' questioning.
Dream three - Title:Conspiracy Cake
I was on a ship, in the
restaurant. An Indian acquaintance I didn't know very well
was with me. I ordered a chocolate cake but the waiter
brought two by mistake. I guessed it was a conspiracy, that
the waiter had brought two on purpose so his friend could
have one for free but I'd have to pay for it. I grabbed the
cake and threw it out the window.
At evening meal I saw the
Indian man. He smiled at me and seemed really nice. It made
me feel even worse.
So this arrives at pretty much
the same conclusion, but refers to my inner-philosophy.
- I'm a suspicious person and always think the worse of
people. WHY?
- So I don't have to bother to get to know anyone. And from
here number three; four and five are as above.
A good point to remember when
doing the interpretation of your own dreams is not to censure
what's there. You could try and twist things round so your
nocturnal adventures are only ever saying what a great individual
you are, but they're probably not are they? And if they are, then
what good is it to you? It may sound negative, but if you look
for the worst they could possibly be saying, then you're less
likely to see what you want to see and shall also end up with
truer Soul Statements. Don't be intimidated about it. The point
of finding all these repeating sentences is to change. To become
who you wish to be... To be happy!
Sweet dreams.
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